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“Don’t compromise yourself. You’re all you’ve got.” – Janis Joplin
The topic of body image and loving your body is one that is very near to my heart. I’ve had an eating disorder for about six years, and I believe I’ve suffered from body dysmorphic disorder for most of my life. (That’s where you look in the mirror and see your body differently than it actually is.) At first I was anorexic, and then I started binge eating. Until very recently, I was still in the throes of binge eating, feeling horribly guilty, and looking in the mirror at my body disapprovingly.
Luckily, I got help with my binge eating from my health coach. I feel like my eating disorder will always be inside of me, but right now it is very quiet and manageable. I finally feel free! And I’m learning to love and appreciate my body for the miracle that it is–did you know that your blood travels 60,000 miles a day inside your body? That’s incredible! So the next time you look in the mirror, I invite you to find something about your body that you absolutely love, and let those other, critical voices, go do something else.
Featured Article: Our Beautiful Bodies

"You Are Beautiful" wall of the Tao Healing Arts Center in Santa Monica, CA
Almost all of us have a distorted image of our body, often due to the importance our culture places on outward appearance and the onslaught of media images of airbrushed models and celebrities. On a daily basis, we talk to ourselves in ways we would never speak to another person. Imagine speaking to a child the way you speak to yourself about your body. It would devastate and squelch a child. It affects you similarly, causing stress and emotional pain in your body, which can make improving your health or losing weight even more difficult.
Think of all the intelligence, creativity and time you spend on improving, altering and judging your appearance. Who would you be and what could you accomplish if your valuable resources weren’t used this way? Constant emphasis on the external makes us discount the great presence and intelligence that is housed by the body. It makes us forget the magic of our internal rhythms and fail to acknowledge the beautiful bodies we have.
The body you have right now is incredible! It never misses a heartbeat, it maintains homeostasis, and it miraculously digests whatever you put in it. It is your instrument for expressing your creativity, intelligence and love. By focusing on the 1% you don’t like or wish were different, you may be ignoring the remaining 99% of your body that is beautiful, unique, and delightful.
What would your life be like if you were simply at peace with the body you have? You may wish to make your body healthier and stronger, but could you do that out of love and respect for your body instead of the opposite? Could you begin to treat yourself with kindness, to limit the negative self-talk, and to reconnect with your inner wisdom? Take a minute to imagine what that would feel like. It would mean celebrating your body rather than punishing it. It would mean nourishing your body rather than depriving it. It would mean a chance to watch your body flourish when treated with care and respect.
Food Focus: Sweet Potatoes
Sweet potatoes are on everyone’s mind this season. They seem to go hand in hand with the holidays, and fortunately, eating

sweet potatoes
these and other sweet vegetables needn’t be limited to this time of year. Cravings for sweets can be greatly reduced by adding sweet vegetables, such as sweet potatoes, yams, parsnips, beets, squash, turnips, and rutabagas to your daily diet. Sweet potatoes elevate blood sugar gently rather than with the jolt delivered by simple refined carbohydrates. That means there’s no energy crash after you eat them.
Much higher in nutrients than white potatoes and especially rich in vitamin A, sweet potatoes offer a creamy consistency that is satisfying and soothing. They are healing to the stomach, spleen, pancreas, and reproductive organs and help to remove toxins from the body. They can increase the quantity of milk in lactating women and can lessen cramps and premenstrual symptoms. If you don’t have any sweet potatoes in your kitchen, go out and buy some (organic and local if possible) and make the recipe below!
Recipe of the Month: Sweet Potatoes with Lime and Cilantro
This recipe is an eye-opener for those who find sweet potatoes cloyingly sweet or those who are tired of eating them smothered

Japanese Sweet Potatoes
in marshmallows and brown sugar. Japanese sweet potatoes, with their pale flesh and delicate flavor, are a treat.
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cooking time: 30-40 minutes
Yield: 4 servings
Ingredients:
- 4 sweet potatoes
- 1/2 bunch fresh cilantro
- 2-3 limes
- ghee (clarified butter) or olive oil (optional)
- sea salt (optional)
Directions:
- Wash the sweet potatoes and bake them whole, in their skins, at 375 degrees until tender, about 40 minutes.
- Wash and chop cilantro leaves.
- When sweet potatoes are done, slit open the skin and place on serving plate.
- Season with salt and dots of ghee or a sprinkle of oil, if you like, then squeeze fresh lime juice all over, and shower with cilantro leaves.
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Lots of love,
Hilary
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